a little thing called love
I am by no means the be all end all with my knowledge on love, but for 18 I think I have my shit together. I have been in a few relationships, mainly a lot of just “seeing” people because I was naive and thought it had potential to become a real relationship. Lesson to all: if a guy doesn’t want to make it facebook official its because he wants to fuck other girls on this friends list. I have also dealt with a lot of guys who in combination with my mother have severely damaged my self esteem. One good boyfriend and a year of university later I am pretty okay with how I look. I think the main thing is not to let people make you ashamed of who you are as a person because the physical can come, go, and change with the trends, your personality, intelligence, and outlook tend to prevail. Its also a good thing to cut contact with anyone where things got remotely messy because if they truly have moved on they shouldn’t have any interest in your life and if they haven’t you’re giving them the opportunity to fuck shit up in your life. Boys are almost worse than girls with slander and trying to ruin anyone who they once had romantic feelings for. My final piece of wisdom is that love shouldn’t be a daily struggle, I mean fights happen and there is no such thing as being perfect BUT daily compromise and screaming are not good, I have never raised my voice in 2 and a half years, not consciously but because I found someone I am compatible with.
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Post secondary education
When people with the IQ of a hampster think they’re going to get through college or even worse university okay when they barely passed highschool.
I dont think people understand that its almost impossible to fail highschool, its designed so everyone passes and gets the fuck out of the system.
You can’t slack through university, you learn at 4 times the speed of high school and of course the concepts are a lot more complex.
Plus why the fuck would you spend the money on a further education and not put the effort into it?
Kids like you are why there is such a high drop out/failure rate in university.
They sort of do just happen, I wouldn’t have a significant other of nearly 3 years if it took constant work, we just get along and love each other and everything else falls into place.
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